The 12 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships by Lyn Kelley

Author:Lyn Kelley
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: love, women, dating, relationships, men, commitment, relationship advice, mistakes
Publisher: Lyn Kelley

The real purpose of life is just to be happy—to enjoy your life. To get to a place where you're not always trying to get someplace else. So many people spend their lives striving, trying to be someplace that they're not, they never get to arrive.

---Dr. Wayne Dyer

Mistake #7

Allow him to be disrespectful or controlling

As I’ve stated before, women tend to get hooked on confident, alpha-male types. It’s one thing to be attracted to an alpha-male, yet it’s quite another thing to be attracted to an egomaniac. You really need to look at the scale and be honest with yourself about where he falls. The worst case scenario is the controlling, resentful, hurtful misogynist.

Calling you (or worse, texting you) at the last minute for a date is disrespectful and men know it. If they respect you they will call at least 2 to 3 days in advance to ask you out. After that, if they like you, they should call within 3 days to ask you out again. If a man doesn’t call within 3 days of meeting me, or within 3 days of a date, I assume he just isn’t that in to me. I move on. Calling or texting you on the same day they want to see you is as though they are asking for a “bootie call.” YOU are not a bootie call, you are not a late-night joy ride, and you DEFINITELY have already made plans (without HIM!).

If a man is inconsistent about calling or asking you out this shows he’s not that in to you. It doesn’t matter the reason – yes, maybe he is busy, but that simply means he’s not that into you. If you are extremely busy but you are really IN to the man, you will find time to see him! When a man is really IN to a woman he will move heaven and earth to see her. Please don’t accept his excuses or make excuses for him. You and I both know that every time you’ve accepted a man’s inconsistency things have never worked out.

Okay, I know this sounds like a double standard. I told you that you should be inconsistent and unpredictable, but you DON’T want HIM to be! You may be wondering if you being unpredictable will cause him to be unpredictable. This is usually not the case. Usually men will pursue you more when they aren’t sure of you and aren’t taking you for granted. So if you want him to pursue you more, you need to create a slower pace than he’s comfortable with. Do this at least until you are in an exclusive, committed relationship where he has been consistent and you feel a solid connection.

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